How strong are your backbones?
How clearly defined and well patrolled are your boundaries?
When you are really clear about what is okay with you, then it’s easier to draw a line in the sand and say to others: “Do not cross this line!” (In a nice way, of course.)
That line is a boundary, and your ability to clearly, consistently, and strongly uphold that boundary is a reflection of the strength of your backbone.
You can have many boundaries and many backbones.
Time management boundaries and financial boundaries are the ones that get most of us in trouble.
Struggling with Time Management?
If you say “yes” too often to requests for your involvement in projects, in community commitments, in helping your dependents do what they are fully capable of doing on their own, then you need to clarify your time management boundaries and strengthen your time management backbone.
It’s time to… let go of the idea that “it’s nice to be needed” because—reality check: you have TOO MUCH going on in your life!
Having weak boundaries and backbones drains your mental and physical energy. Can you afford to let that keep happening?
Stressing about Cash Flow and Finances?
If you do not have clearly defined savings and investment goals, if you do not have a clear idea of your monthly cash flow guidelines, if you make spontaneous purchases or find yourself saying “yes” too often to “just one more”, then you need to clarify your financial boundaries and strengthen your financial backbone.
It’s time to… put positive time and energy into what you want more of: financial security and abundance!
With clarity about your goals and what’s most important to you, you can create clear boundaries in your life. The more consistently you honor yourself, your plans, your dreams, the stronger your backbone.
Set-up a free 15-minute call with me to talk further about your boundaries and backbones here.
Here’s to YOU conserving and revitalizing your vital life force energy with clearly defined boundaries and strong backbones, so you can get more out of life!